Otalky values your privacy and confidentiality. We don’t store personal data or searchable information. We never divulge member details to other members. But nothing in today’s world is completely safe. With access to the internet people can exploit the smallest piece of data. It is up to you to protect yourself and your identity. You don’t have to share any personal information with another member until you are completely comfortable doing so – or ever! We encourage you to never use your last name, phone number, or email address in your personal greetings. Don’t ever share financial details or data with another member regardless of what they tell you. If you feel pressured to reveal any information, immediately contact our Customer Service representatives and let them know.

Your privacy is our highest priority - that’s one of the reasons why we don’t do any kind of background check on our members. We encourage you to do your own research especially before meeting someone in person or sharing any personal details with them. Take relationships slowly. Ask lots of questions and learn about your new friends while always respecting their privacy, too!. Use your mind and your gut instincts together instead of letting your heart lead. Let trust build between you. Remember that the internet gives you access to all kinds of research tools. Sex offenders and criminals will usually show up as such online. If you discover that another member is underage or engaged in illegal activity on Otalky, let Customer Service know immediately

Displays of anger, aggression, hostility, intense frustration, disrespect, control, or physical violence are never acceptable and are not welcome at Otalky. They should not be tolerated or encouraged by our members. If you encounter any of these behaviors, stop the contact, block the member, and give Customer Service a call. Also be on the lookout for inconsistencies. While it is true that many people fake their identities or personalities while chatting, listen for inconsistencies about age, appearance, marital status, employment, or interests. Always be wary of people who refuse to give direct answers to direct questions. Finally, make sure you are clear as to your intentions and that you aren’t leading someone on. Don’t expect honesty if you aren’t willing to give it yourself.

Everyone joins a chat line for different reasons. Make sure you know what yours are and take time to get to know people. New connections are fun and exciting, but they can also be quite intense. Don’t let yourself get carried away. It can be hard to judge someone with such limited information so be skeptical and take things slowly. Pay attention to strange behavior or inconsistencies. You are in complete control! Meeting new people and making new connections on Otalky should be fun. It should never feel pressured or rushed. There shouldn’t be any hurry to meet up in person. In fact, you don’t ever have to meet anyone in person if that’s what you want. If you do decide to take that step, however, safety should be your first priority.